To be what we are, is very difficult. We normally cover overselves with many falls covering that even we forget, what is our realselves. We are compelled to live a dual life and that results in a lot of unnecessary stress, which could have been eschewed.
Have we ever thought that why it is so? Because the ostentations and a feeling of to show others, that I am superior, has marred us, has ruined us up the brim. We have lost connection or loosing connection with our real innerself, which is the real source of strength and alas! we are depending on external source of strengths.
So, it is the time, when we have to ponder over it. If you want to turn the tide in your favour, I am at your service, always.